This is part of my story. A sacred space of mine.
I firmly believe that God will use the source of our greatest pain as one of our greatest ministries in our lives if we let Him; this that for me. I hope that in sharing this part of my story, this sacred space of mine, this pain of mine, that someone will find help, comfort, and steps towards healing here.
If you find yourself here because infant loss has touched your life or the life of someone you know, first, I extend my sincerest sympathies and give you the biggest of hugs, and, second, I hope you will find this page to help guide you or someone you love through the grieving process.
In 2010, our first child, our little girl, entered heaven’s gates after a short 36 days with us. Her name is Hailey. (You can read the details of her/my/our story that I wrote after her death and shared on the website Be Not Afraid here.) My heart and life have forever changed because of Hailey, and I seek to support those mothers who find themselves a part of the bereaved community.
Please scroll down to find my writings on infant loss and grief as well as a compilation of resources I have found to be helpful.
Click to the links below to read my blog posts in the following categories:
Gifts for the Bereaved:
Laurelbox – “Designed to nourish a woman’s heart after loss.” (Note: Beautiful, thoughtful bereavement gifts and items; however, on the expensive side.)
Project Sweet Peas / Forever My Sweet Pea – Bereavement / memory boxes and gift items range from free to a minimal cost from this sister non-profit organization; runs on donations. Send inquires to firstname.lastname@example.org
Online communities and resources:
I’ll Hold You in Heaven by Jack Hayford
Click here to learn more or buy on Amazon–> I’ll Hold You in Heaven
Grieving the Child I Never Knew by Kathe Wunnenber
Click here to learn more or buy on Amazon–> Grieving the Child I Never Knew: A Devotional for Comfort in the Loss of Your Unborn or Newly Born Child
I Will Carry You by Angie Smith
Click here to buy on Amazon–> I Will Carry You: The Sacred Dance of Grief and Joy
A Grief Observed by C. S. Lewis
Click here to learn more or buy on Amazon–> A Grief Observed
Tear Soup (wonderful illustrated story for families and children on general grief)
Click here to learn more or buy on Amazon–> Tear Soup: A Recipe for Healing After Loss
I’m always adding more resources as I come upon them so please check back!
Do you have a resource you found helpful? Please share!